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      Simon Armitage talks about 'I am very bothered' and 'My father thought it'

      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can listen and respond to Simon Armitage’s ‘I am very bothered’ and ‘My father thought it’.

      Key learning points

      1. Armitage suggests that ‘I am very bothered’ was based on real events that happened during his school years.
      2. Armitage says that ‘I am very bothered’ is about how we hurt people who don’t love us in the way that we want them to.
      3. Armitage’s ‘My father thought it’ is based on Armitage piercing his ear and his father’s reaction to the piercing.
      4. Armitage suggests that the poem could be seen as a late reply to his father’s reaction.

      Keywords

      • Bothered - feeling or showing agitation, worry, annoyance

      • Flashback - where you suddenly experience a powerful memory from a past experience

      • Process - to think about a difficult or sad situation so that you can gradually accept it

      Common misconception

      Writing is purely a form of escapism.

      For some, writing can be a way of helping to process emotions and ideas.

      Teacher tip

      Armitage uses the word "queer" in 'My father thought it' - this word can mean strange or odd but also can be seen as a derogatory term for the LGBTQ+ community and should be handled sensitively.

      Equipment

      You will need copies of Armitage's 'I am very bothered' and 'My father thought it' for this lesson. There are copies available in the additional materials.

      Content guidance

      Language may offend

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2026), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Simon Armitage is the current UK Laureate.

      Correct Answer: poet, Poet

      Q2.
      'Feeling or showing agitation, worry, annoyance' is the definition of which of the following?

      bored
      Correct answer: bothered
      besotted

      Q3.
      Armitage says that poetry is very similar to which of the following?

      Correct answer: sculpture
      snowboarding
      skating

      Q4.
      'Where you suddenly experience a powerful memory from a past experience' is the definition of which of the following?

      Correct answer: flashback
      flashforward
      hallucination

      Q5.
      'To think about a difficult or sad situation so that you can gradually accept it' is the definition of which of the following?

      to proceed
      to procure
      Correct answer: to process

      Q6.
      Is the following statement true or false: 'Simon Armitage suggests that poetry has no value in society anymore'.

      Correct Answer: False, F, false, f

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Which of the following is an accurate summary of Armitage's 'I am very bothered'?

      The speaker regrets not telling their crush that they had feelings for them.
      The speaker tells of a past experience where someone hurt them.
      Correct answer: The speaker tells of a past experience where they hurt somebody else.

      Q2.
      Which of the following was Armitage's inspiration for 'I am very bothered'?

      A friend's experience at school.
      Correct answer: Armitage's own experience at school.
      A book that Armitage once read.

      Q3.
      Which of the following is an accurate summary of Armitage's 'My father thought it'?

      Armitage explores his father's reaction to him becoming a poet.
      Correct answer: Armitage explores his father's reaction to him getting his ear pierced.
      Armitage explores his father's reaction to getting a tattoo.

      Q4.
      Match the family member with their response to Armitage getting his ear pierced.

      Correct Answer:mother,They said his father would kill him.

      They said his father would kill him.

      Correct Answer:grandmother,They said he looked like a pirate.

      They said he looked like a pirate.

      Correct Answer:father,They asked him what it meant.

      They asked him what it meant.

      Q5.
      Is the following statement true or false: 'Armitage suggests that the main idea behind 'I am very bothered' is that people hurt others to avoid embarrassment'.

      Correct Answer: True, T, true, t

      Q6.
      Armitage's 'I am very bothered' and 'My father thought it' are both from which poetry collection?

      Correct answer: Book of Matches
      Paper Aeroplane
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