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Year 10
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Identifying how poets present relationships that change over time

I can identify similarities and differences between ‘Mother, any distance’, ‘Walking Away’ and ‘Follower’.

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Year 10
AQA

Identifying how poets present relationships that change over time

I can identify similarities and differences between ‘Mother, any distance’, ‘Walking Away’ and ‘Follower’.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. All three poets reflect on the fluid and changing dynamics of parental relationships.
  2. All three poems explore the lasting effect ephemeral moments can have on a person.
  3. Armitage and Heaney use the child's perspective whereas Day-Lewis uses the parent's perspective.
  4. Armitage and Day-Lewis focus on a moment of separation whereas Heaney incorporates a reversal of roles.
  5. ‘Walking Away’ and ‘Follower’ reminisce on an important moment from the speaker’s past.

Keywords

  • Perspective - a particular interpretation or outlook on situations and events

  • Reversal - transition to an opposite direction or outcome

  • Ephemeral - brief or transitory in nature; fleeting

  • Stifle - suppress or suffocate; inhibit the development or expression of something

  • Separation - act of isolating or setting apart distinct entities

Common misconception

In 'Mother, any distance', the 'child' figure yearns for independence while the parent isn't ready to let them go.

It is possible to interpret the poem in this way but it is also possible to infer that the speaker feels nervous about the prospect of their independence, worrying whether they will succeed or "fall".


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You could summarise the similarities and differences between all three poems using a Venn diagram with 3 circles.
Teacher tip

Equipment

You will need access to 'Mother, any distance' (Armitage), 'Walking Away' (Day-Lewis) and 'Follower' (Heaney). They can be found in the AQA Love and Relationships Poetry Anthology.

Content guidance

  • Depiction or discussion of sensitive content

Supervision

Adult supervision recommended

Licence

This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2025), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0 except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions (Collection 2).

Lesson video

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6 Questions

Q1.
When we look for similarities and differences between two or more things we are ...
evaluating
Correct answer: comparing
summarising
Q2.
The poem 'Mother, any distance' by Simon Armitage is about ...
a son helping his mother move home.
Correct answer: a mother helping her son move home.
a mother and son's relationship breaking down.
Q3.
The poem 'Follower' by Seamus Henaey is written from the perspective of...
Correct answer: a son.
a father.
an omniscient narrator.
Q4.
'Walking Away' explores...
Correct answer: a child gaining independence
seasons changing
a loved one breaking up with someone
Q5.
Define the word 'ephemeral'.
Correct answer: brief or transitory in nature
to suppress or suffocate
a particular outlook on events
Q6.
A particular interpretation or outlook on situations and events is known as a .
Correct Answer: perspective

6 Questions

Q1.
Comparison involves looking at similarities and .
Correct Answer: differences
Q2.
Match the keywords with their definitions.
Correct Answer:perspective ,a particular interpretation or outlook on a situation

a particular interpretation or outlook on a situation

Correct Answer:reversal ,transition to an opposite direction or outcome

transition to an opposite direction or outcome

Correct Answer:ephemeral ,brief or transitory in nature; fleeting

brief or transitory in nature; fleeting

Correct Answer:stifle,suppress or suffocate

suppress or suffocate

Correct Answer:separation ,act of isolating or setting apart distinct entities

act of isolating or setting apart distinct entities

Q3.
Which poems from the 'Love and Relationships' anthology are written from the perspective of a child thinking about their parent?
Correct answer: 'Mother, any distance'
'Walking Away'
Correct answer: 'Follower'
Q4.
Which of these poems from the 'Love and Relationships' anthology depict a moment of separation?
Correct answer: 'Mother, any distance'
Correct answer: 'Walking Away'
'Follower'
Q5.
Match the quotation with the poem it's from.
Correct Answer:'Mother, any distance',"anchor"

"anchor"

Correct Answer:'Walking Away',"half-fledged"

"half-fledged"

Correct Answer:'Follower',"stumbled"

"stumbled"

Q6.
What do the speakers of 'Mother, any distance', 'waking Away' and 'Follower' all have in common?
Correct answer: they focus on a parent-child relationship
they are from the perspective of a child
Correct answer: they capture a moment in the speaker’s life