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      Identifying how poets present relationships that change over time

      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can identify similarities and differences between ‘Mother, any distance’, ‘Walking Away’ and ‘Follower’.

      Key learning points

      1. All three poets reflect on the fluid and changing dynamics of parental relationships.
      2. All three poems explore the lasting effect ephemeral moments can have on a person.
      3. Armitage and Heaney use the child's perspective whereas Day-Lewis uses the parent's perspective.
      4. Armitage and Day-Lewis focus on a moment of separation whereas Heaney incorporates a reversal of roles.
      5. ‘Walking Away’ and ‘Follower’ reminisce on an important moment from the speaker’s past.

      Keywords

      • Perspective - a particular interpretation or outlook on situations and events

      • Reversal - transition to an opposite direction or outcome

      • Ephemeral - brief or transitory in nature; fleeting

      • Stifle - suppress or suffocate; inhibit the development or expression of something

      • Separation - act of isolating or setting apart distinct entities

      Common misconception

      In 'Mother, any distance', the 'child' figure yearns for independence while the parent isn't ready to let them go.

      It is possible to interpret the poem in this way but it is also possible to infer that the speaker feels nervous about the prospect of their independence, worrying whether they will succeed or "fall".

      Teacher tip

      You could summarise the similarities and differences between all three poems using a Venn diagram with 3 circles.

      Equipment

      You will need access to 'Mother, any distance' (Armitage), 'Walking Away' (Day-Lewis) and 'Follower' (Heaney). They can be found in the AQA Love and Relationships Poetry Anthology.

      Content guidance

      Depiction or discussion of sensitive content

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2026), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
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      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      When we look for similarities and differences between two or more things we are ...

      evaluating
      Correct answer: comparing
      summarising

      Q2.
      The poem 'Mother, any distance' by Simon Armitage is about ...

      a son helping his mother move home.
      Correct answer: a mother helping her son move home.
      a mother and son's relationship breaking down.

      Q3.
      The poem 'Follower' by Seamus Henaey is written from the perspective of...

      Correct answer: a son.
      a father.
      an omniscient narrator.

      Q4.
      'Walking Away' explores...

      Correct answer: a child gaining independence
      seasons changing
      a loved one breaking up with someone

      Q5.
      Define the word 'ephemeral'.

      Correct answer: brief or transitory in nature
      to suppress or suffocate
      a particular outlook on events

      Q6.
      A particular interpretation or outlook on situations and events is known as a .

      Correct Answer: perspective

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Comparison involves looking at similarities and .

      Correct Answer: differences

      Q2.
      Match the keywords with their definitions.

      Correct Answer:perspective ,a particular interpretation or outlook on a situation

      a particular interpretation or outlook on a situation

      Correct Answer:reversal ,transition to an opposite direction or outcome

      transition to an opposite direction or outcome

      Correct Answer:ephemeral ,brief or transitory in nature; fleeting

      brief or transitory in nature; fleeting

      Correct Answer:stifle,suppress or suffocate

      suppress or suffocate

      Correct Answer:separation ,act of isolating or setting apart distinct entities

      act of isolating or setting apart distinct entities

      Q3.
      Which poems from the 'Love and Relationships' anthology are written from the perspective of a child thinking about their parent?

      Correct answer: 'Mother, any distance'
      'Walking Away'
      Correct answer: 'Follower'

      Q4.
      Which of these poems from the 'Love and Relationships' anthology depict a moment of separation?

      Correct answer: 'Mother, any distance'
      Correct answer: 'Walking Away'
      'Follower'

      Q5.
      Match the quotation with the poem it's from.

      Correct Answer:'Mother, any distance',"anchor"

      "anchor"

      Correct Answer:'Walking Away',"half-fledged"

      "half-fledged"

      Correct Answer:'Follower',"stumbled"

      "stumbled"

      Q6.
      What do the speakers of 'Mother, any distance', 'waking Away' and 'Follower' all have in common?

      Correct answer: they focus on a parent-child relationship
      they are from the perspective of a child
      Correct answer: they capture a moment in the speaker’s life

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