Healthy boundaries with friends
Lesson details
Learning outcome
I can explain why personal boundaries are important and why we should respect other people’s boundaries.
Key learning points
- We all have boundaries around what we will and won't do.
- We have to decide when to say yes and no.
- Good friends respect each other's boundaries.
- Ignoring someone's boundaries is unacceptable.
Keywords
Boundary - an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow
Respect - treating others kindly and valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries; for example, listening carefully and being polite, even if you disagree
Unacceptable - doing or saying something that is not ok
Common misconception
If someone does something we don’t like, this means they are crossing a personal boundary.
It's important to remember that personal boundaries only apply to things that affect us. We cannot have boundaries that control other people's actions, even if this means they do something that we don't like.
Teacher tip
Ensure to differentiate between "what we want" and "our personal boundaries". It is inappropriate for us to dictate what the people around us do. However, it is important to state what we want, and for others to respect our personal space and boundaries.
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Lesson video
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Prior knowledge starter quiz
6 Questions
Q1.Match the words to their definition.
someone's thoughts or opinions
to have a different opinion from someone else
to be kind to someone
to provide help and encouragement to others
Q2.Which statements are true?
Q3.When we disagree with someone, it’s important to still to their ideas.
Q4.How can we care for and support our friends?
Q5.Match the statement with whether it is true or false.
Compromise only makes one person happy.
Compromise is an agreement that makes all people happy.
It's ok to say no to friends if we feel uncomfortable.
There is nothing we can do to stop bullying.
Q6.To __________ someone means to praise them for who they are or something they have done.
Assessment exit quiz
6 Questions
Q1.Match the words with their definition.
an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow
treating others kindly, valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries
doing or saying something that is not ok
Q2.Which statements are true?
Q3.How can we respect someone's boundaries?
Q4.Match the feelings with whether their boundary has been respected or ignored.
cared for
safe
sad
uncomfortable
in control
Q5. someone's boundaries is unacceptable.
Q6.Match the phrases to whether or not they are respecting of someone's boundary to not play outside after dinner.
"That's ok, we can play again tomorrow!"
"No worries, I understand!"
"Only babies can't walk to school!"
"You know you want to stay out!"
To help you plan your 3 RSHE (PSHE) lesson on: Healthy boundaries with friends, download all teaching resources for free and adapt to suit your pupils' needs...
To help you plan your 3 RSHE (PSHE) lesson on: Healthy boundaries with friends, download all teaching resources for free and adapt to suit your pupils' needs.
The starter quiz will activate and check your pupils' prior knowledge, with versions available both with and without answers in PDF format.
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