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Year 3

How to be a good friend

I can describe how to be a good friend and explain what a compromise is.

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Year 3

How to be a good friend

I can describe how to be a good friend and explain what a compromise is.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. Good friends listen to each other.
  2. Good friends care for and support each other.
  3. Good friends compromise with each other.
  4. Good friends celebrate each other's differences.

Keywords

  • Care - to be kind to someone

  • Support - to provide help and encouragement to others

  • Celebrate - to praise someone for who they are or something they have done

  • Compromise - an agreement where all people are happy

Common misconception

Compromise means everyone getting exactly what they want.

When we compromise, we often accept an imperfect situation. We have to give a little in order to help everyone get something of what they want.


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After the lesson, try to use the word compromise as many times as possible. It is a difficult piece of vocabulary, but is very useful to help pupils understand how to resolve conflict.
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Equipment

Content guidance

  • Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying
  • Depiction or discussion of violence or suffering

Supervision

Adult supervision recommended

Licence

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Lesson video

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words to their definition.
Correct Answer:bullying,when someone repeatedly uses mean words or actions to hurt or upset

when someone repeatedly uses mean words or actions to hurt or upset

Correct Answer:victim,in this context, the person who is being bullied

in this context, the person who is being bullied

Correct Answer:welcome,to happily invite someone in and make them feel comfortable

to happily invite someone in and make them feel comfortable

Q2.
Which of these statements are true?
Correct answer: Bullying is a serious problem.
We should never say no to a friend.
Correct answer: We should make others feel welcome in our class.
Adults can't help if someone is being bullied.
Q3.
Match the statements with whether they are true or false.
Correct Answer:true,Friends can look different to us.

Friends can look different to us.

Correct Answer:false,Friends must enjoy the same activities.

Friends must enjoy the same activities.

Correct Answer:false,Friends must always agree.

Friends must always agree.

Correct Answer:true,Friends stop when we say no.

Friends stop when we say no.

Correct Answer:true,Friends care for and support us.

Friends care for and support us.

Q4.
Which are examples of bullying?
Correct answer: hurting someone in the playground every day
being unkind to someone once
disagreeing with a friend
Correct answer: making multiple unkind comments about how someone looks
Correct answer: always leaving the same person out of a game
Q5.
Friends should...
ignore how we feel
Correct answer: respect our opinions
Correct answer: listen when we are upset
make fun of us
Correct answer: make us feel happy
Q6.
A is an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow.
Correct Answer: boundary

6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words with their definition.
Correct Answer:care,to be kind to someone

to be kind to someone

Correct Answer:support,to provide help and encouragement to others

to provide help and encouragement to others

Correct Answer:celebrate,to praise someone for who they are or something they have done

to praise someone for who they are or something they have done

Q2.
A is an agreement where all people are happy.
Correct Answer: compromise
Q3.
Which statements are true?
Good friends never listen to each other.
Correct answer: Good friends care for and support each other.
Compromise means everyone getting exactly what they want.
Correct answer: We have to 'give' a little to help everyone get something they want.
Q4.
How can we celebrate our friends' differences?
leave them out of games
Correct answer: make compromises so that they can be included
Correct answer: ask questions about how we can support them
argue with them if they disagree with us
stop being friends with them
Q5.
How can we show care for our friends?
be rude to them
Correct answer: include them
Correct answer: listen to them
Correct answer: share with them
make unkind jokes about them
Q6.
Match the examples to whether they show being similar or different to friends.
Correct Answer:similar,they enjoy the same things

they enjoy the same things

Correct Answer:different,one person is taller than the other

one person is taller than the other

Correct Answer:similar,they are the same gender

they are the same gender

Correct Answer:different,one person is from another country

one person is from another country