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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can describe how to be a good friend and explain what a compromise is.

      Key learning points

      1. Good friends listen to each other.
      2. Good friends care for and support each other.
      3. Good friends compromise with each other.
      4. Good friends celebrate each other's differences.

      Keywords

      • Care - to be kind to someone

      • Support - to provide help and encouragement to others

      • Celebrate - to praise someone for who they are or something they have done

      • Compromise - an agreement where all people are happy

      Common misconception

      Compromise means everyone getting exactly what they want.

      When we compromise, we often accept an imperfect situation. We have to give a little in order to help everyone get something of what they want.

      Teacher tip

      After the lesson, try to use the word compromise as many times as possible. It is a difficult piece of vocabulary, but is very useful to help pupils understand how to resolve conflict.

      Content guidance

      Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

      Depiction or discussion of violence or suffering

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2026), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words to their definition.

      Correct Answer:bullying,when someone repeatedly uses mean words or actions to hurt or upset

      when someone repeatedly uses mean words or actions to hurt or upset

      Correct Answer:victim,in this context, the person who is being bullied

      in this context, the person who is being bullied

      Correct Answer:welcome,to happily invite someone in and make them feel comfortable

      to happily invite someone in and make them feel comfortable

      Q2.
      Which of these statements are true?

      Correct answer: Bullying is a serious problem.
      We should never say no to a friend.
      Correct answer: We should make others feel welcome in our class.
      Adults can't help if someone is being bullied.

      Q3.
      Match the statements with whether they are true or false.

      Correct Answer:true,Friends can look different to us.

      Friends can look different to us.

      Correct Answer:false,Friends must enjoy the same activities.

      Friends must enjoy the same activities.

      Correct Answer:false,Friends must always agree.

      Friends must always agree.

      Correct Answer:true,Friends stop when we say no.

      Friends stop when we say no.

      Correct Answer:true,Friends care for and support us.

      Friends care for and support us.

      Q4.
      Which are examples of bullying?

      Correct answer: hurting someone in the playground every day
      being unkind to someone once
      disagreeing with a friend
      Correct answer: making multiple unkind comments about how someone looks
      Correct answer: always leaving the same person out of a game

      Q5.
      Friends should...

      ignore how we feel
      Correct answer: respect our opinions
      Correct answer: listen when we are upset
      make fun of us
      Correct answer: make us feel happy

      Q6.
      A is an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow.

      Correct Answer: boundary

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words with their definition.

      Correct Answer:care,to be kind to someone

      to be kind to someone

      Correct Answer:support,to provide help and encouragement to others

      to provide help and encouragement to others

      Correct Answer:celebrate,to praise someone for who they are or something they have done

      to praise someone for who they are or something they have done

      Q2.
      A is an agreement where all people are happy.

      Correct Answer: compromise

      Q3.
      Which statements are true?

      Good friends never listen to each other.
      Correct answer: Good friends care for and support each other.
      Compromise means everyone getting exactly what they want.
      Correct answer: We have to 'give' a little to help everyone get something they want.

      Q4.
      How can we celebrate our friends' differences?

      leave them out of games
      Correct answer: make compromises so that they can be included
      Correct answer: ask questions about how we can support them
      argue with them if they disagree with us
      stop being friends with them

      Q5.
      How can we show care for our friends?

      be rude to them
      Correct answer: include them
      Correct answer: listen to them
      Correct answer: share with them
      make unkind jokes about them

      Q6.
      Match the examples to whether they show being similar or different to friends.

      Correct Answer:similar,they enjoy the same things

      they enjoy the same things

      Correct Answer:different,one person is taller than the other

      one person is taller than the other

      Correct Answer:similar,they are the same gender

      they are the same gender

      Correct Answer:different,one person is from another country

      one person is from another country


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