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Year 3

Making up after arguments

I can describe strategies to repair relationships after arguments.

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Year 3

Making up after arguments

I can describe strategies to repair relationships after arguments.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. Sometimes we have arguments with friends.
  2. Arguments happen when we don't understand each other.
  3. Arguments can happen when someone’s needs haven’t been met.
  4. We can repair relationships after arguments if we both try.
  5. We need to listen and understand to repair relationships.

Keywords

  • Argument - when people disagree and give reasons why they think their idea is correct

  • Relationship - the connection between people

  • Repair - to fix something

Common misconception

Once people fall out, they cannot be friends.

Good friendships are strong enough to withstand difficult times, especially when both people want to repair the relationship and are willing to put in the effort.


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Remind pupils that it takes time and effort to maintain a healthy relationship. We cannot take them for granted.
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Adult supervision recommended

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Lesson video

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words with their definition.
Correct Answer:respect,treating others kindly, valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries

treating others kindly, valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries

Correct Answer:unacceptable,doing or saying something that is not ok

doing or saying something that is not ok

Correct Answer:compromise,an agreement where all people are happy

an agreement where all people are happy

Correct Answer:disagree,to have a different opinion from someone else

to have a different opinion from someone else

Q2.
We should make others feel __________ in our class.
left out
embarrassed
Correct answer: welcome
Correct answer: cared for
Q3.
Good friends respect each other's ...
Correct Answer: boundaries
Q4.
Which statements are true?
Good friends always have the same interests and ideas.
Correct answer: Good friends celebrate each other's differences.
Good friends never disagree with each other.
Correct answer: Good friends disagree respectfully and kindly.
Q5.
When should we ask a trusted adult for help?
Correct answer: if someone is being bullied
if we have made a compromise with a friend
Correct answer: if someone believes that it's ok to be unkind to others
if our friend is different to us
Q6.
What does it mean to support someone?
to think the same thing as them
to think something different to them
to do something we find hard
Correct answer: to provide help and encouragement to others
to laugh at someone when they get something wrong

6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words with their definition.
Correct Answer:argument,when people disagree and say why they think their idea is correct

when people disagree and say why they think their idea is correct

Correct Answer:relationship,the connection between people

the connection between people

Correct Answer:repair,to fix something

to fix something

Q2.
Why might we have an argument with friends?
Correct answer: because we don't understand each other
because we are feeling happy and calm
Correct answer: because someone’s needs haven’t been met
because arguments always make our relationships stronger
Q3.
To help repair a relationship, we may need to say for the role that we played in the argument.
Correct Answer: sorry
Q4.
Match the statements with whether they are true or false.
Correct Answer:true,Both people need to try to repair a friendship.

Both people need to try to repair a friendship.

Correct Answer:true,We need to listen to repair relationships.

We need to listen to repair relationships.

Correct Answer:false,We need to argue with friends until they say sorry.

We need to argue with friends until they say sorry.

Correct Answer:false,Once people fall out, they cannot be friends.

Once people fall out, they cannot be friends.

Q5.
It’s typical to have arguments with friends , but they shouldn’t happen all the time.
Correct Answer: occasionally, sometimes
Q6.
William and Mohammed have argued. William shouted at Mohammed for missing a goal in their football game. This made Mohammed feel upset so he shouted back. How should they try to repair the friendship?
Correct answer: apologise for their part in the argument
Correct answer: listen to each other and focus on how the other person feels
never speak to each other again
ignore each other for the next two weeks