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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can describe strategies to repair relationships after arguments.

      Key learning points

      1. Sometimes we have arguments with friends.
      2. Arguments happen when we don't understand each other.
      3. Arguments can happen when someone’s needs haven’t been met.
      4. We can repair relationships after arguments if we both try.
      5. We need to listen and understand to repair relationships.

      Keywords

      • Argument - when people disagree and give reasons why they think their idea is correct

      • Relationship - the connection between people

      • Repair - to fix something

      Common misconception

      Once people fall out, they cannot be friends.

      Good friendships are strong enough to withstand difficult times, especially when both people want to repair the relationship and are willing to put in the effort.

      Teacher tip

      Remind pupils that it takes time and effort to maintain a healthy relationship. We cannot take them for granted.

      Content guidance

      Depiction or discussion of sensitive content

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2025), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words with their definition.

      Correct Answer:respect,treating others kindly, valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries

      treating others kindly, valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries

      Correct Answer:unacceptable,doing or saying something that is not ok

      doing or saying something that is not ok

      Correct Answer:compromise,an agreement where all people are happy

      an agreement where all people are happy

      Correct Answer:disagree,to have a different opinion from someone else

      to have a different opinion from someone else

      Q2.
      We should make others feel __________ in our class.

      left out
      embarrassed
      Correct answer: welcome
      Correct answer: cared for

      Q3.
      Good friends respect each other's ...

      Correct Answer: boundaries

      Q4.
      Which statements are true?

      Good friends always have the same interests and ideas.
      Correct answer: Good friends celebrate each other's differences.
      Good friends never disagree with each other.
      Correct answer: Good friends disagree respectfully and kindly.

      Q5.
      When should we ask a trusted adult for help?

      Correct answer: if someone is being bullied
      if we have made a compromise with a friend
      Correct answer: if someone believes that it's ok to be unkind to others
      if our friend is different to us

      Q6.
      What does it mean to support someone?

      to think the same thing as them
      to think something different to them
      to do something we find hard
      Correct answer: to provide help and encouragement to others
      to laugh at someone when they get something wrong

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words with their definition.

      Correct Answer:argument,when people disagree and say why they think their idea is correct

      when people disagree and say why they think their idea is correct

      Correct Answer:relationship,the connection between people

      the connection between people

      Correct Answer:repair,to fix something

      to fix something

      Q2.
      Why might we have an argument with friends?

      Correct answer: because we don't understand each other
      because we are feeling happy and calm
      Correct answer: because someone’s needs haven’t been met
      because arguments always make our relationships stronger

      Q3.
      To help repair a relationship, we may need to say for the role that we played in the argument.

      Correct Answer: sorry

      Q4.
      Which of the following statements are true?

      We need to argue with friends until they say sorry.
      Once people fall out, they cannot be friends
      Correct answer: We need to listen to repair relationships.
      Correct answer: Both people need to try to repair a friendship.

      Q5.
      It’s typical to have arguments with friends , but they shouldn’t happen all the time.

      Correct Answer: occasionally, sometimes

      Q6.
      William and Mohammed have argued. William shouted at Mohammed for missing a goal in their football game. This made Mohammed feel upset so he shouted back. How should they try to repair the friendship?

      Correct answer: apologise for their part in the argument
      Correct answer: listen to each other and focus on how the other person feels
      never speak to each other again
      ignore each other for the next two weeks

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