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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can explain why peer pressure is so powerful and describe ways we can say 'no' to our friends.

      Key learning points

      1. We all have different motivations.
      2. Many of us would like to be popular among our friends, which can make it difficult it we experience peer pressure.
      3. We sometimes want to please our friends, even when it makes us feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
      4. It can be hard to say 'no' to friends, particularly for young people.
      5. Trusted adults can help with issues around peer pressure and we can practise saying 'no' firmly and clearly.

      Keywords

      • Motivation - the reason why someone does something

      • Popular - how liked or admired someone is

      • Peer pressure - when someone tries to persuade or force someone else to do something

      Common misconception

      Being popular is more important than being safe.

      Whilst it can feel good to be popular, our safety and feeling comfortable is more important. Good friends will never pressure us to do something unsafe.

      Teacher tip

      Friendship issues are often contextual, so make sure that you include scenarios and examples of peer pressure that are most relevant to your setting.

      Content guidance

      Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

      Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2025), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words with their correct definition.

      Correct Answer:rules,expectations to follow that can keep us safe

      expectations to follow that can keep us safe

      Correct Answer:uncomfortable,feeling anxious, worried or unable to relax

      feeling anxious, worried or unable to relax

      Correct Answer:boundary,an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

      an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

      Correct Answer:unacceptable,doing or saying something that is not ok

      doing or saying something that is not ok

      Q2.
      Someone we know offline who makes us feel safe and can help us is called a trusted ...

      Correct Answer: adult

      Q3.
      What is a red flag?

      a sign that a friendship is healthy
      Correct answer: a sign that a friendship is unhealthy
      a sign that a friendship is online
      a sign that we should stay friends

      Q4.
      Which statements are true?

      Correct answer: Good friends accept and celebrate each other.
      Correct answer: We need to listen to friends to maintain a friendship.
      A real friendship can never be damaged.
      To repair friendships, we need to prove why our friend is wrong.

      Q5.
      Laura wants a hug, but her friend Aisha does not like hugs. What could Laura do?

      Correct answer: find someone else who likes hugs and hug them
      cross Aisha's boundary and hug her
      Correct answer: ask Aisha for a high-five instead
      get angry with Aisha and shout at her

      Q6.
      Getting permission to touch someone is called getting ...

      respect
      Correct answer: consent
      affection
      emotion

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words with their definition.

      Correct Answer:motivation,the reason why someone does something

      the reason why someone does something

      Correct Answer:popular,how liked or admired someone is

      how liked or admired someone is

      Correct Answer:peer pressure,when someone tries to persuade or force someone else to do something

      when someone tries to persuade or force someone else to do something

      Q2.
      Which statements are true?

      Being popular is more important than being safe.
      Correct answer: Our safety and feeling comfortable is more important than being popular.
      Good friends will pressure us to do something unsafe.
      Correct answer: It is typical to want to be popular among our friends.

      Q3.
      It can be hard to say no to friends, particularly for people.

      Correct Answer: young, younger

      Q4.
      What can we do if we are experiencing peer pressure?

      give in to the peer pressure
      peer pressure someone else
      Correct answer: tell a trusted adult
      Correct answer: say 'no' firmly and clearly
      Correct answer: walk away from the situation

      Q5.
      Match the start of each sentence with how it should end.

      Correct Answer:We might want to please our friends ...,even when it makes us uncomfortable.

      even when it makes us uncomfortable.

      Correct Answer:Being popular can mean ...,being thought of as ‘cool’ or ‘fun’.

      being thought of as ‘cool’ or ‘fun’.

      Correct Answer:We can say ‘no’ to our friends at ...,any time, but especially if we feel unsafe.

      any time, but especially if we feel unsafe.

      Correct Answer:People who peer pressure us ...,might make things sound safer than they really are.

      might make things sound safer than they really are.

      Q6.
      Match the motivation to the example.

      Correct Answer:money,choosing a job that pays well even if we don't like it

      choosing a job that pays well even if we don't like it

      Correct Answer:power,choosing to become a team captain in PE

      choosing to become a team captain in PE

      Correct Answer:popularity,learning jokes because we enjoy making our friends laugh

      learning jokes because we enjoy making our friends laugh

      Correct Answer:learning,choosing to read books about interesting topics in our free time

      choosing to read books about interesting topics in our free time


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