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  • Year 9

Long-term relationships

I can explain the different types of long-term relationship, including cohabitation.

Lesson 2 of 4
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Long-term relationships

I can explain the different types of long-term relationship, including cohabitation.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. There are different types of long-term relationships including marriage, civil partnerships and cohabitation.
  2. A person should only enter a long-term relationship when they feel emotionally ready and there is no pressure.
  3. All healthy long-term relationships are based on mutual respect and consent.
  4. People may choose to enter the different types of long-term relationships for different reasons.
  5. Cohabitation involves living together without being married or in a civil partnership.

Keywords

  • Cohabitation - when a couple live together without being married or in a civil partnership

Common misconception

Cohabitation provides people with the same legal rights and responsibilities as being married.

Cohabitation does not provide the same legal rights and responsibilities as marriage or civil partnerships. It's important to understand these differences.


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Reinforce that all choices of long-term relationships are valid if they are freely entered into.
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Adult supervision recommended

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Prior knowledge starter quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
What does the term 'mutual' mean in relationships?

one person making all the decisions
Correct answer: something shared equally by both people
keeping secrets from each other
only caring about yourself

Q2.
Name one thing that helps people communicate well with each other.

Correct Answer: listening, asking questions, listening carefully, active listening, taking turns to speak

Q3.
Match each word to its meaning.

Correct Answer:respect,being considerate of others and the world around you

being considerate of others and the world around you

Correct Answer:communication,the exchange of words, either verbal or written, to express thoughts

the exchange of words, either verbal or written, to express thoughts

Correct Answer:boundary,an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

Q4.
Which of these is an example of a long-term relationship?

meeting someone new at a party
Correct answer: a couple who have been together for three years
texting with a classmate about homework
going on a first date

Q5.
When should someone enter a long-term relationship?

when their friends tell them to
Correct answer: when they feel emotionally ready themselves
as soon as they meet someone they like
when their parents want them to

Q6.
Trust in a relationship is built by...

keeping secrets from your partner
making all the decisions yourself
never disagreeing about anything
Correct answer: being honest and reliable over time

Assessment exit quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Which of the following is a legally recognised union?

dating
Correct answer: marriage
friendship
cohabitation

Q2.
What does cohabitation mean?

living alone
Correct answer: living together without a legal union
getting married
being in a civil partnership

Q3.
Which of the following is a key difference between cohabitation and a marriage or a civil partnership?

cohabitation involves a wedding ceremony
cohabiting couples are always legally protected
Correct answer: marriage/civil partnerships give automatic legal rights

Q4.
Healthy long-term relationships are based on mutual and consent.

Correct Answer: respect

Q5.
A person should only enter into a long-term relationship when...

Correct answer: they feel emotionally ready
they have been coerced into the relationship
Correct answer: there is consent

Q6.
Match each word to the correct description.

Correct Answer:commitment,a promise to be dedicated to someone or something

a promise to be dedicated to someone or something

Correct Answer:responsibilities,duties or tasks expected in a relationship

duties or tasks expected in a relationship

Correct Answer:consent,agreeing freely to something without pressure

agreeing freely to something without pressure