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Benefits of positive relationships

I can explain the importance of different relationships.

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  • Year 7

Benefits of positive relationships

I can explain the importance of different relationships.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. There are different types of power in relationships.
  2. There are different power dynamics in different relationships.
  3. Positive relationships can make someone feel listened to, respected, supported and safe.
  4. Negative relationships can make someone feel insecure, sad, lonely and anxious.

Keywords

  • Power - having the ability to influence or control what happens in a situation or how other people act or feel

  • Dynamics - ways in which people interact, communicate and behave towards each other

  • Boundary - an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

  • Respect - being considerate of others and the world around you; treating people fairly and how you would like to be treated

Common misconception

Power in relationships is always unhealthy.

Power comes into all relationships and it can be used to create safe, healthy relationships.


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Use real-life scenarios to help pupils identify healthy vs unhealthy power dynamics. For example, discuss situations like: a friend who always decides what games to play vs friends who take turns choosing activities.
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Prior knowledge starter quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Which of the following statements about relationships are not accurate?

Correct answer: Relationships are only with people we are attracted to.
We have different types of relationships with different people.
Relationships are how two or more people are connected.
Correct answer: Every family is exactly the same.

Q2.
Which of the following is an example of a positive relationship?

Correct answer: each person respects the other's boundaries
people respect our boundaries, but we don't respect theirs
people feel unsafe and unvalued

Q3.
Which of the following statements are correct?

In a friendship, everyone has to have the same interests.
Family relationships don't have boundaries.
Correct answer: Colleagues should show respect to each other.
Communication between friends are bound by confidentiality.

Q4.
All positive relationships contain boundaries and ...

Correct Answer: respect

Q5.
Match each relationship type with where you're most likely to find it.

Correct Answer:friend,at the playground or at a club

at the playground or at a club

Correct Answer:teacher,at school during lessons

at school during lessons

Correct Answer:doctor,at a hospital, surgery or clinic

at a hospital, surgery or clinic

Correct Answer:family member,at home or family gatherings

at home or family gatherings

Q6.
How should a positive relationship make you feel?

worried and nervous most of the time
like you have to change who you are
scared to share your opinions
Correct answer: safe, valued, and respected

Assessment exit quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words to the correct defintion.

Correct Answer:power,having the ability to influence or control what happens in a situation

having the ability to influence or control what happens in a situation

Correct Answer:dynamics,ways in which people interact, communicate & behave towards each other

ways in which people interact, communicate & behave towards each other

Correct Answer:boundary,an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

Q2.
Which of these statements is not accurate?

Parents, carers or guardians may have more power because they have authority.
Correct answer: We have equal power in our relationships with teachers and school staff.
We have equal power in our relationships with friends.
In a romantic relationship, power should be reciprocal.

Q3.
Which of the following is a healthy use of power?

Correct answer: helping another person make positive choices
pressuring friends to behave in a certain way
pushing another person's boundaries
Correct answer: being accountable when we make mistakes

Q4.
Which of the following are warning signs of unhealthy power in a relationship?

Correct answer: control
Correct answer: manipulation
Correct answer: blame and denial
positive influence
collaborative decision-making

Q5.
Which emotions might someone experience in a relationship with healthy power dynamics?

anxious
Correct answer: respected
Correct answer: listened to
Correct answer: secure
worried

Q6.
Match each relationship type with how power works in that relationship

Correct Answer:friendships,equal power - friends share thoughts & influence decisions together

equal power - friends share thoughts & influence decisions together

Correct Answer:parent-child,unequal - adults have authority, children can communicate feelings

unequal - adults have authority, children can communicate feelings

Correct Answer:teacher-pupil,unequal - adults make rules, pupils express thoughts respectfully

unequal - adults make rules, pupils express thoughts respectfully

Correct Answer:doctor-patient,different power - experts have expertise, patients decide their care

different power - experts have expertise, patients decide their care

Correct Answer:romantic partners,equal power - partners communicate feelings & make decisions together

equal power - partners communicate feelings & make decisions together