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  • Year 10

Recognising abuse and violence

I can describe different forms of domestic abuse and explain how to seek support.

Lesson 2 of 3
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  • Year 10

Recognising abuse and violence

I can describe different forms of domestic abuse and explain how to seek support.

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Key learning points

  1. Domestic abuse comes in many forms.
  2. People in abusive relationships may not realise they are being abused.
  3. It can be difficult and dangerous to leave abusive relationships, and recipients of abuse need support.
  4. If you suspect someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, there are people and organisations that can help.
  5. There are laws surrounding domestic abuse, including the Domestic Abuse Act 2021.

Keywords

  • Abuse - to hurt, mistreat or control another person on purpose, either physically, emotionally, or verbally, causing harm or pain

  • Recipient of abuse - any individual who experiences abusive treatment

  • Perpetrator - an individual who has committed a harmful act

  • Consent - everyone involved clearly agrees to sexual activity without pressure; it's freely given, can be withdrawn anytime, and requires understanding

Common misconception

It is only possible to experience one type of abuse in the same relationship, and recipients of abuse are always women.

Multiple forms of abuse can be present in the same relationship, and recipients of domestic abuse can be men.


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Content guidance

  • Depiction or discussion of sexual violence
  • Depiction or discussion of sensitive content
  • Depiction or discussion of violence or suffering
  • Depiction or discussion of mental health issues

Supervision

Adult supervision required

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Lesson video

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Prior knowledge starter quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
What does the term 'respect' mean in a relationship?

always agreeing with the other person
never having disagreements
Correct answer: treating someone fairly and how you'd like to be treated
doing whatever the other person wants

Q2.
A is an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow in relationships.

Correct Answer: boundary, boundaries

Q3.
In a healthy relationship, conflict is:

a sign the relationship is failing
something that should never happen
Correct answer: normal and can be resolved through communication
always someone's fault

Q4.
What does it mean if someone has good emotional intelligence?

Correct answer: they're aware of their feelings
they never feel sad or angry
they avoid talking about emotions
Correct answer: they understand how others feel
they always know the right answer

Q5.
The exchange of words to express thoughts and feelings is called ...

Correct Answer: Communication

Q6.
Which of the following are examples of conflict resolution strategies?

Correct answer: active listening
ignoring each other
Correct answer: compromise
Correct answer: finding common ground
screaming and shouting

Assessment exit quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Which of these are forms of domestic abuse?

physical abuse only
physical, sexual and emotional abuse only
Correct answer: coercive control, physical, sexual, emotional, financial and online abuse
only abuse that leaves visible injuries

Q2.
Match the words to their correct definitions.

Correct Answer:perpetrator,an individual who has committed a harmful act

an individual who has committed a harmful act

Correct Answer:recipient of abuse,an individual who experiences abusive treatment

an individual who experiences abusive treatment

Correct Answer:abuse,hurting, mistreating or controlling another person on purpose

hurting, mistreating or controlling another person on purpose

Q3.
Which statements are true about domestic abuse?

Only women can be recipients of abuse.
Correct answer: Multiple forms of abuse can occur in a relationship.
Only one type of abuse happens in a relationship at a time.
Correct answer: Anyone can be a recipient of abuse.
Men cannot experience domestic abuse.

Q4.
Why might recipients of abuse find it difficult to leave an abusive relationship?

Correct answer: they may not realise they are being abused
they don't want help
it's always easy to leave if they really want to
Correct answer: they may experience threats, isolation or financial dependency

Q5.
If you suspect someone is experiencing domestic abuse, what should you do?

Correct answer: create a safe space to talk and actively listen
confront the perpetrator yourself
Correct answer: signpost them to support services
ignore it as it's not your business
Correct answer: tell a trusted adult

Q6.
When was the Domestic Abuse Act passed?

Correct Answer: 2021