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Being a good friend

I can describe the features of a good friend and a good listener.

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Year 1

Being a good friend

I can describe the features of a good friend and a good listener.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. A good friend is kind.
  2. A good friend listens.
  3. A good friend stops what they're doing if we say no.

Keywords

  • Kind - treating other people well and thinking about their feelings

  • Listen - to hear and try to understand what someone is saying

Common misconception

A good friend always wants to do the same things as us.

No-one is identical. It's ok if our friends want to do different activities to us. We might even enjoy doing what other people want to do.


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Lesson video

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Prior knowledge starter quiz

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4 Questions

Q1.
A good friend uses kind .
Correct Answer: hands, words, feet
Q2.
What does a good friend do when you're playing?
runs away
Correct answer: shares
breaks your toy
Q3.
Match the feeling to the action.
Correct Answer:happy,when my friend shares with me

when my friend shares with me

Correct Answer:sad,when no one wants to play with me

when no one wants to play with me

Correct Answer:angry,when someone breaks my toy

when someone breaks my toy

Q4.
What do you do if you see your friend upset?
Correct answer: tell an adult
laugh at them
Correct answer: ask if they want to play
run away

Assessment exit quiz

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4 Questions

Q1.
What does a good friend do when you're talking?
talks over you
Correct answer: looks at you
ignores you
Q2.
What does a kind friend do?
Correct answer: shares
ignores you when you are stuck
Correct answer: stops what they're doing when you say no
only lets some people have a turn
Q3.
Match the action with the correct response.
Correct Answer:A friend says, "No, I don't like that.",You stop what you're doing.

You stop what you're doing.

Correct Answer:A friend shares their toy with you.,You thank them and play together.

You thank them and play together.

Correct Answer:A friend wants to do something different,You say "that's ok" and find something else to do.

You say "that's ok" and find something else to do.

Q4.
Which word means treating other people well and thinking about their feelings?
Correct Answer: kind, being a good friend, kindness, being kind