Difference between secrets and surprises
Lesson details
Learning outcome
I can describe the difference between secrets and surprises.
Key learning points
- A surprise is something like a present or a surprise party.
- Surprises are ok and can make things more fun.
- A secret is when someone asks us to not say anything, but it is not fun and can make us uncomfortable.
- If a secret makes us feel worried or uncomfortable, we should tell a trusted adult and ask for help until we are heard.
- It is not ok to keep secrets if someone is getting hurt or feels scared.
Keywords
Suprise - something that is hidden for a short time to make it more fun, like a present or a party
Secret - something that is kept hidden
Worried - feeling scared or nervous about something that might happen
Uncomfortable - feeling anxious, worried or unable to relax
Scared - feeling afraid when you think something bad might happen
Common misconception
Surprises are bad.
If a surprise is short-term and makes people happier, then it is ok to not say something for a little while. For example, not telling someone about their surprise party or what present they are about to get.
Teacher tip
Children should learn to listen to their gut instinct. They will often feel that something is wrong before they fully understand why something is bad or dangerous. Listening to our intuition is a valuable life skill.
Content guidance
Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying
Supervision
Adult supervision recommended
Licence
Lesson video
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Prior knowledge starter quiz
6 Questions
Q1.Match the word to the definition.
Q2.What emotions might we feel if we are safe?
Q3.Who should help us feel safe?
Q4.What should we do if we don't feel safe?
Q5.Boys have penises and girls have ...
Q6.Who can look at or touch our genitals when necessary?
Assessment exit quiz
6 Questions
Q1.Match the word to the definition.
Q2.A surprise could be ...
Q3.How can secrets make us feel?
Q4.It's not ok to keep if someone is getting hurt or feels scared.
Q5.Whom should we tell if a secret makes us feel worried, uncomfortable or scared?
Q6.When it is especially important to tell a trusted adult about a secret?
To help you plan your 2 RSHE (PSHE) lesson on: Difference between secrets and surprises, download all teaching resources for free and adapt to suit your pupils' needs...
To help you plan your 2 RSHE (PSHE) lesson on: Difference between secrets and surprises, download all teaching resources for free and adapt to suit your pupils' needs.
The starter quiz will activate and check your pupils' prior knowledge, with versions available both with and without answers in PDF format.
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