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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can explain what it's like to feel down and lonely and what might make me feel that way.

      Key learning points

      1. Sadness is when we feel unhappy.
      2. Feeling down is like being a little bit sad.
      3. Sometimes, when people are down, they cry, or they might want to be alone or not doing anything.
      4. People who are lonely can often feel down.
      5. There are different things we can do to help us if we feel down, including speaking to our trusted adults.

      Keywords

      • Sad - a feeling of being unhappy without joy

      • Lonely - sadness from feeling like you're alone or that you don't belong

      Common misconception

      It is a bad sign if you feel sad.

      It is important to feel all emotions because they are all important. Being sad lets us know that we are missing something or need something.

      Teacher tip

      Be really clear that you are talking about being 'down' and 'sad', normal emotions, not the extremes of depression.

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the word to the definition.

      Correct Answer:self-esteem,feeling good about yourself

      feeling good about yourself

      Correct Answer:positive,good, encouraging thoughts or comments

      good, encouraging thoughts or comments

      Correct Answer:negative,bad, unkind thoughts or comments

      bad, unkind thoughts or comments

      Q2.
      We might not feel all the time and that is ok.

      Correct Answer: confident

      Q3.
      How can we understand how good we feel in ourselves?

      by thinking about the things we can't do
      Correct answer: by reflecting on our self-esteem
      by asking our younger siblings
      by asking our pets

      Q4.
      Which statements are true?

      Correct answer: Our self-esteem can change and grow.
      Our self-esteem will always stay the same throughout our lives.
      Correct answer: Self-esteem is built by positive thoughts and celebrating our successes.
      Self-esteem is built by negative thoughts and failure.

      Q5.
      What things could we say to ourselves to boost our self-esteem?

      "I will never get better at things!"
      "I'm rubbish at everything new I try to do!"
      Correct answer: "I am kind and considerate and try my hardest."
      Correct answer: "My teacher says I’m great at trying new things."

      Q6.
      If we are struggling with our confidence or self-esteem, we should ...

      Correct answer: speak to a trusted adult
      keep our feelings to ourselves
      say negative things to ourselves
      Correct answer: surround ourselves with people who support and help us

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the word to the definition.

      Correct Answer:sad,a feeling of being unhappy without joy

      a feeling of being unhappy without joy

      Correct Answer:lonely,sadness from feeling like you're alone or that you don't belong

      sadness from feeling like you're alone or that you don't belong

      Correct Answer:emotions,feelings we have inside, like happiness, sadness or anger

      feelings we have inside, like happiness, sadness or anger

      Q2.
      Feeling down is a bit like being ...

      Correct Answer: sad, upset, unhappy

      Q3.
      Which statements are true?

      Feeling sad or down is not ok.
      Correct answer: Feeling sad or down is ok.
      Correct answer: All emotions are important.
      Only positive emotions are important.

      Q4.
      What things might make someone feel down?

      Correct answer: feeling lonely
      Correct answer: big changes
      feeling excited
      Correct answer: feeling worried

      Q5.
      What could we do to help us feel better if we feel down?

      keep our emotions to ourselves
      Correct answer: write our feelings down
      Correct answer: do some exercise
      shout and scream
      Correct answer: talk to a trusted adult

      Q6.
      Why might someone who is lonely feel down?

      Correct answer: because they might feel like they don’t have anyone to talk to
      Correct answer: because they might feel left out or like they don’t belong
      because they might feel included and welcomed
      because they might feel like they have too many friends to play with

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