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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can explain some of the challenges that families can face.

      Key learning points

      1. Families can face serious challenges.
      2. We all go through difficult challenges in life.
      3. Many challenges are because of change.
      4. Parents or carers may break-up, separate or divorce.
      5. It is never the children's fault if parents or carers separate.

      Keywords

      • Challenge - in this context, a problem that is difficult to solve or overcome

      • Break-up - when two people end or change their relationship

      • Separate - when people, who have been in a relationship for a long time, end their relationship

      • Divorce - when people end their marriage

      • Struggling - when someone is finding it hard to overcome a challenge

      Common misconception

      Children are to blame if their parents or carers break-up.

      This is never the case, although many children carry guilt, shame and regret with regard to parental separation.

      Teacher tip

      This subject matter will be particularly hard for children who have experienced parental separation or the loss of someone close to them. Facilitators should use their professional judgement when deciding how to approach this lesson.

      Content guidance

      Depiction or discussion of sensitive content

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2025), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the word to the definition.

      Correct Answer:change,the way things become different to how they used to be

      the way things become different to how they used to be

      Correct Answer:support,giving help to someone

      giving help to someone

      Correct Answer:unique,being one of a kind or different from others

      being one of a kind or different from others

      Q2.
      How might a family change?

      Correct answer: a new baby might be born into the family
      Correct answer: there might be a death in the family
      a family continues to live in the same house

      Q3.
      Change can be , especially if we don't feel ready, or if we didn't decide to change.

      Correct Answer: challenging, difficult, hard

      Q4.
      How might someone feel during change?

      Correct answer: excited
      hungry
      Correct answer: worried
      bored
      Correct answer: confused

      Q5.
      Which of the following statements are true?

      Correct answer: over time, change can feel easier to manage
      only some people experience change
      Correct answer: most people will experience change
      change is always easy

      Q6.
      Which stategies are effective when managing our emotions during change?

      keeping our feelings to ourselves
      Correct answer: talking to a trusted adult
      staying indoors all day
      Correct answer: doing things we enjoy
      Correct answer: exercising

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the word to the definition.

      Correct Answer:challenge,a problem that is difficult to solve or overcome

      a problem that is difficult to solve or overcome

      Correct Answer:break-up,when two people end or change their relationship

      when two people end or change their relationship

      Correct Answer:divorce,when people end their marriage

      when people end their marriage

      Correct Answer:struggling,finding it hard to overcome a problem or situation

      finding it hard to overcome a problem or situation

      Q2.
      Which of the following are examples of challenges a family might face?

      Correct answer: a parent or carer might lose their job
      a child might lose their favourite jumper
      Correct answer: two parents or carers might break-up
      a parent or carer might not be sure what to cook for dinner
      Correct answer: a family member might become seriously ill

      Q3.
      What might happen when two parents or carers break-up?

      Correct answer: the children might have to live in two homes
      the children have to live on their own
      nothing changes
      Correct answer: the children might have to live with one parent or carer

      Q4.
      It is the children's fault if two parents or carers break-up.

      Correct Answer: never

      Q5.
      Which of the following statements are true?

      Correct answer: we all go through challenges in life
      Correct answer: it can be challenging when two parents or carers break-up
      only adults go through challenges in life
      it's always easy when two parents or carers break-up

      Q6.
      How can we get support when we are struggling?

      Correct answer: we can get support from trusted adults
      we can speak to our younger siblings
      Correct answer: we can use strategies to help us manage our emotions
      we should keep our feelings to ourselves

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