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Year 5

Building strong friendships

I can describe how to build strong friendships.

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Year 5

Building strong friendships

I can describe how to build strong friendships.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. Strong friendships have certain positive traits, known as green flags.
  2. Good friends accept and celebrate each other.
  3. Differences among friends is a positive thing.
  4. Building and maintaining strong friendships requires care and effort.
  5. We need to listen to friends to maintain a friendship.

Keywords

  • Green flag - a sign that a relationship is healthy

  • Respect - treating others kindly and valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries; for example, listening carefully and being polite, even if you disagree

  • Celebrate - to praise someone for who they are or something they have done

  • Maintain - in this context, putting in effort to keep a relationship healthy and working

Common misconception

A good friendship requires no effort.

We all need to put in work to build and maintain friendships. Connecting with other people takes time, curiosity and acceptance of differences.


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Equipment

Content guidance

  • Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

Supervision

Adult supervision recommended

Licence

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Lesson video

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words with their definition.
Correct Answer:support,to provide help and encouragement to others

to provide help and encouragement to others

Correct Answer:argument,when people disagree and give reasons why they think they are correct

when people disagree and give reasons why they think they are correct

Correct Answer:boundary,an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

Q2.
What does it mean to be unique?
to be left out of a group
to be invited and welcomed into a group
Correct answer: to be one of a kind or different from others
to be unkind because of someone's gender
Q3.
Which of these statements are true?
Being different is a bad thing.
Correct answer: People can be excluded because they are different.
Humans are more different than similar.
Correct answer: We need to make an effort to include everyone.
Q4.
We can relationships after arguments if both people in the friendship try.
Correct Answer: repair
Q5.
Match the behaviour with whether it relates to being a good friend or a bad friend.
Correct Answer:listening to each other,good friend

good friend

Correct Answer:ignoring boundaries,bad friend

bad friend

Correct Answer:compromising with each other,good friend

good friend

Correct Answer:disagreeing without respect,bad friend

bad friend

Q6.
could take the form of physical, emotional or discriminatory unkindness.
Correct Answer: Bullying

6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words to their definition.
Correct Answer:respect,treating others kindly, valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries

treating others kindly, valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries

Correct Answer:celebrate,to praise someone for who they are or something they have done

to praise someone for who they are or something they have done

Correct Answer:maintain,putting in effort to keep a relationship healthy and working

putting in effort to keep a relationship healthy and working

Q2.
Which of these are green flags in a friendship?
Correct answer: caring for and respecting each other
your boundaries being ignored
experiencing pressure to change who you are
Correct answer: being able to be yourself around them
Q3.
Which of these statements are true?
A good friendship requires no effort.
Correct answer: Differences among friends is a positive thing.
Correct answer: All friendships require work and effort.
In a friendship, only one friend needs to put in the effort.
Q4.
We need to to learn how our friends think and feel.
Correct Answer: listen
Q5.
Match the fact with whether it's true or false.
Correct Answer:Most friends argue from time to time.,true

true

Correct Answer:Good friends argue all the time.,false

false

Correct Answer:Friends should always respect us.,true

true

Correct Answer:Friends should never disagree.,false

false

Q6.
Building and maintaining strong friendships requires care and ...
Correct Answer: effort