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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can describe the way that a healthy family should treat each other.

      Key learning points

      1. Families should treat each other kindly and with love.
      2. Healthy families make each other feel safe and secure.
      3. Families should not make each other feel scared or worried.
      4. If our trusted adults have worries, they are not our fault, and we should still feel safe and secure.

      Keywords

      • Safe - something that won't hurt us

      • Secure - feeling protected and safe from harm

      • Worried - feeling scared or nervous about something that might happen

      Common misconception

      Every child gets the support, love and care that they need.

      Many children do not have their needs met and may require extra support. For example, this can come from school or social care.

      Teacher tip

      Pupils who do not have a healthy home environment may find this lesson upsetting. Ensure that you create space for pupils to share their worries with you, and be prepared to record disclosures if appropriate.

      Content guidance

      Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

      Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2025), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Who might be part of a family?

      only people who are related to you
      only your mum and dad
      Correct answer: people you live with and care about
      only people who look like you

      Q2.
      A trusted adult is someone who keeps you and listens to you.

      Correct Answer: safe

      Q3.
      If you feel upset or worried, what is the best thing to do?

      keep it a secret and don't tell anyone
      Correct answer: talk to a trusted adult about how you feel
      ignore your feelings and hope they go away
      only tell your teddy bear how you feel

      Q4.
      Which of these shows someone is being kind to their family?

      Correct answer: helping to set the table for dinner
      shouting at your brother when he borrows your toy
      refusing to share anything with your sister
      ignoring your parent when they ask you a question

      Q5.
      Match each action to whether it shows kindness or unkindness.

      Correct Answer:sharing your toys,shows kindness
      Correct Answer:calling someone names,shows unkindness
      Correct Answer:asking someone if they want a hug,shows thoughtfulness

      Q6.
      If you ask for help but don't get it, you should keep until someone listens.

      Correct Answer: trying, asking

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Which of these are ways a healthy family shows they care for each other?

      ignoring each other and not talking
      only thinking about themselves
      never spending time together
      Correct answer: helping, sharing and showing kindness

      Q2.
      What word means 'feeling protected and safe from harm'?

      Correct Answer: secure

      Q3.
      How should a healthy family make you feel?

      scared and worried most of the time
      Correct answer: safe, happy and secure
      nervous about what might happen
      like you need to solve problems alone

      Q4.
      Which of the following statements are true?

      Grown-ups never have worries.
      If grown-ups have worries, it's my fault.
      Correct answer: Grown-ups will sometimes have worries and this is normal.
      Correct answer: I should still feel safe even if my grown-ups are worried.

      Q5.
      Do all children get the love, support and care they need from their family?

      Yes, every child always gets everything they need.
      Yes, families alone always meet children's needs.
      Correct answer: No, some children need extra support from school or social care.

      Q6.
      If you feel scared or around family, you should talk to a trusted adult.

      Correct Answer: worried

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