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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can describe some of the changes and challenges that families may face and explain why it is important for family members to respect boundaries.

      Key learning points

      1. Many young people care for their family members.
      2. Many families will face changes.
      3. We should feel safe with our families.
      4. There is a difference between secrets and surprises.
      5. Family members should respect each other's boundaries.

      Keywords

      • Struggling - when someone is finding it hard to overcome a challenge

      • Boundary - an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

      • Respect - treating others kindly and valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries; for example, listening carefully and being polite, even if you disagree

      Common misconception

      Only adults having caring responsibilities.

      Some young people are young carers.

      Teacher tip

      Please speak to your RSHE lead or DSL before teaching this lesson. Ensure pupils are aware of how to make disclosures in your settings.

      Content guidance

      Depiction or discussion of sensitive content

      Depiction or discussion of sensitive content

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2025), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the word to the definition.

      Correct Answer:challenge,a problem that is difficult to solve or overcome

      a problem that is difficult to solve or overcome

      Correct Answer:support,to provide help and encouragement to others

      to provide help and encouragement to others

      Correct Answer:provide,to give someone everything they need

      to give someone everything they need

      Q2.
      Everyone faces in their life.

      Correct Answer: challenges, problems, difficult situations, changes

      Q3.
      How could we support someone who is struggling?

      Correct answer: by listening to their feelings
      by ignoring their feelings
      Correct answer: by asking how they want to be supported
      by pressuring them to talk to us

      Q4.
      What could we say to someone who was struggling?

      Correct answer: "Is there anything I can help you with?"
      "I'd rather play with someone who is happy ..."
      "Why do you look miserable?"
      Correct answer: "Would you like to join our game?"

      Q5.
      Which statements are true?

      Children should fix big problems in their family.
      Correct answer: It is not a child's job to fix big problems in their family.
      Only children struggle with things.
      Correct answer: Everyone will struggle with things at some point in their life.

      Q6.
      What should we do if we are struggling?

      Correct answer: speak to a trusted adult
      stay inside for long periods of time
      Correct answer: write down our feelings
      eat chocolate all day
      Correct answer: do something we enjoy

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the word to the definition.

      Correct Answer:struggling,when someone is finding it hard to overcome a challenge

      when someone is finding it hard to overcome a challenge

      Correct Answer:boundary,an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

      an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

      Correct Answer:respect,treating others kindly and valuing their feelings, ideas & boundaries

      treating others kindly and valuing their feelings, ideas & boundaries

      Q2.
      What might a young carer do?

      Correct answer: look after someone who is struggling
      work at a hospital
      drive cars
      Correct answer: clean the home

      Q3.
      Which statements are true?

      Correct answer: Everyone has different boundaries.
      Only adults' boundaries are important.
      Only adults have boundaries.
      Correct answer: We should respect each other's boundaries.

      Q4.
      Why is it important to respect family members' boundaries?

      Correct answer: it helps people to feel safe
      it helps people to feel rested
      Correct answer: it helps people to feel cared for
      it helps people get better at maths

      Q5.
      Families can face such as moving home, a new baby or a parent or carer getting a new job.

      Correct Answer: changes, challenges

      Q6.
      What is the difference between secrets and surprises?

      Secrets are meant to feel exciting or special.
      Correct answer: Surprises are meant to feel exciting or special.
      Correct answer: Secrets can make us feel worried or uncomfortable.
      Surprises will always make us feel worried or uncomfortable.

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