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      Dangers to watch out for in the online space

      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can identify the warning signs of unhealthy behaviour.

      Key learning points

      1. Unhealthy behaviour tends to follow certain patterns.
      2. We can identify patterns to avoid unhealthy relationships.
      3. Unhealthy behaviour includes manipulation tactics.
      4. Manipulation tactics can be hard to spot.
      5. Manipulative behaviour sometimes begins with apparently positive actions, such as gift-giving and flattery.

      Keywords

      • Relationship - the connection between people

      • Unhealthy - not good for us

      • Behaviour - the things that someone does and says

      • Manipulation - influencing someone's emotions to make them do something

      • Tactic - the method to achieve something

      Common misconception

      It is easy to tell if someone is being manipulative.

      Manipulators often begin with behaviour that appears positive - for example, flattery, love-bombing and gift-giving. However, this can lead to controlling behaviour later in the relationship.

      Teacher tip

      Link this lesson to those in the units about power and healthy relationships.

      Content guidance

      Depiction or discussion of sensitive content

      Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

      Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2026), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the term to the correct definition.

      Correct Answer:respect,a positive feeling towards somebody

      a positive feeling towards somebody

      Correct Answer:green flag,a sign that a relationship is healthy

      a sign that a relationship is healthy

      Correct Answer:behaviour,the things that someone does and says

      the things that someone does and says

      Q2.
      What should we not share online?

      Correct answer: personal information
      our username
      our game scores
      Correct answer: photos and videos of ourselves

      Q3.
      When might we need a trusted adult to help us to report or block something online?

      if someone you know asks to follow you on social media
      Correct answer: if someone online asks you for personal information
      if your friend shares a funny video with you online
      Correct answer: if you see something online that makes you worried

      Q4.
      People we meet online are strangers. True or false?

      Correct Answer: True, Yes, Correct, T

      Q5.
      What should we do if something goes wrong online?

      keep using our device
      show a friend
      Correct answer: tell our trusted adult
      Correct answer: put our device down

      Q6.
      Some people might try to us to get information online.

      Correct Answer: trick, manipulate

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words to the correct definition.

      Correct Answer:relationship,the connection between people

      the connection between people

      Correct Answer:unhealthy,not good for us

      not good for us

      Correct Answer:manipulation,influencing someone’s emotions to make them do something

      influencing someone’s emotions to make them do something

      Correct Answer:tactic,the method to achieve something

      the method to achieve something

      Q2.
      What behaviour might someone show in an unhealthy relationship?

      Correct answer: pressure someone to do something
      show respect for the other person
      take turns turns to make decisions
      Correct answer: ignore the other person's thoughts and feelings

      Q3.
      Which of the following are examples of manipulation tactics?

      Correct answer: making someone feel guilty if they don’t want to do something
      asking someone to follow them on social media
      celebrating a friend's score on a game
      Correct answer: offering gifts or money if someone does something for them

      Q4.
      Manipulation tactics are easy to spot. True or false?

      Correct Answer: False, No, F, Incorrect

      Q5.
      Spotting red flags in someone's behaviour can help us avoid unhealthy relationships. Yes or no?

      Correct Answer: Yes, True, Correct, Y

      Q6.
      What should we do if we spot red flags in someone's behaviour?

      ignore the red flags and continue speaking to them
      Correct answer: tell a trusted adult and report or block them online
      hope that they become a kinder person
      send a rude message to the person

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