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Year 5

Finding support when I feel unsafe

I can describe situations where I might feel unsafe and explain how to be an active bystander.

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Year 5

Finding support when I feel unsafe

I can describe situations where I might feel unsafe and explain how to be an active bystander.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. Sometimes we have to keep ourselves safe by making healthy choices.
  2. Some situations are particularly risky, such as meeting strangers online or leaving the house without trusted adults.
  3. We should use our instinct and our brains to decide what the right thing to do is.
  4. If we are worried, upset or scared, telling a trusted adult will help.
  5. We can support our friends by being active bystanders, instead of bystanders.

Keywords

  • Situation - what is happening around you at a particular time and place

  • Risky - something that is potentially dangerous

  • Instinct - your gut feeling about something

  • Bystander - someone who witnesses something

  • Active bystander - someone who takes action when something bad happens

Common misconception

Being online is safer than going out of the house.

Although there is limited risk of physical harm in the online space, young people are vulnerable online. Some people online deliberately hurt young people, take advantage of young people or share indecent images and videos of young people.


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Equipment

Content guidance

  • Depiction or discussion of upsetting content
  • Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

Supervision

Adult supervision recommended

Licence

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Lesson video

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Prior knowledge starter quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words with their definition.

Correct Answer:motivation,the reason why someone does something

the reason why someone does something

Correct Answer:popular,how liked or admired someone is

how liked or admired someone is

Correct Answer:discrimination,treating a person unfairly because of their characteristics

treating a person unfairly because of their characteristics

Correct Answer:identity,who someone is

who someone is

Q2.
When people try to persuade or force you to do something, this is called ...

Correct Answer: peer pressure, pressure

Q3.
Which statements are true?

Correct answer: It is not possible to know who someone really is online.
It is easy to delete something from the internet.
Correct answer: Healthy friendships feel equal and respectful.
We must always say 'yes' to our friends.

Q4.
Adults should...

Correct answer: keep us safe
Correct answer: never touch us in a way that makes us feel uncomfortable
make us feel unsafe
do whatever we ask
Correct answer: listen and respond to what we need

Q5.
Which of the following are examples of respect?

always doing what your friend asks you to do
Correct answer: listening to your friends' opinions, even if they are different to yours
shouting at your friend if they have a different opinion to you
Correct answer: balancing your needs with your friends' needs

Q6.
Match the start of each sentence with how it should end.

Correct Answer:Boundaries are...,imaginary lines separating what we will and won't allow.

imaginary lines separating what we will and won't allow.

Correct Answer:Ignoring someone's boundaries...,is unacceptable.

is unacceptable.

Correct Answer:We can repair relationships...,after arguments, if we both try.

after arguments, if we both try.

Correct Answer:We can disagree...,respectfully and kindly.

respectfully and kindly.

Assessment exit quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words with their definition.

Correct Answer:situation,what is happening around you at a particular time and place

what is happening around you at a particular time and place

Correct Answer:risky,something that is potentially dangerous

something that is potentially dangerous

Correct Answer:bystander,someone who witnesses something

someone who witnesses something

Q2.
In a risky situation, we can use our and our brains to decide what the right thing to do is.

Correct Answer: instinct, gut, intuition, gut instinct

Q3.
Which statements are true?

Correct answer: Sometimes we have to keep ourselves safe by making healthy choices.
Being online is always safer than going out of the house.
Correct answer: Young people are especially vulnerable online and can be harmed.
It is safe to meet strangers online.

Q4.
What can we do if we are in a risky situation?

always do what our friends are doing
Correct answer: tell a trusted adult
Correct answer: say 'no' and leave the situation
be a bystander, not an active bystander

Q5.
How can we be an active bystander?

Correct answer: by calling out when people are being unsafe
Correct answer: by telling a trusted adult if someone is at risk
by pressuring others to take a risk
by ignoring a risky situation

Q6.
Which situations are likely to be unsafe?

Correct answer: leaving the house without trusted adults knowing where we are
going on a school trip
Correct answer: playing with cleaning products
learning to ride a bike with a trusted adult