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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can describe what unhealthy pressure from adults looks like.

      Key learning points

      1. Adults should be there to keep us safe and sometimes need to tell us what to do.
      2. Rules should be fair and should be there to keep everyone safe and happy.
      3. Adults might put pressure on us that feels uncomfortable.
      4. Adults should never touch us in a way that makes us feel uncomfortable.
      5. If we feel unsafe we should tell an adult we trust.

      Keywords

      • Rules - expectations to follow that can keep us safe

      • Trusted adult - someone we know offline who makes us feel safe who can help us

      • Pressure - when people try to persuade or force you to do something

      • Uncomfortable - feeling anxious, worried or unable to relax

      Common misconception

      Adults are always kind.

      Sadly, adults are not always kind. Hopefully, we all have trusted adults who care for us and will protect us if they can. Most children have trusted adults at home and at school, who they can speak to if they are worried.

      Teacher tip

      This subject matter could be triggering for a child who has experienced abuse. Use your professional judgement to decide how to support that child before, during and after the lesson. Some pupils may need to be removed from this lesson altogether if they have experienced significant trauma.

      Content guidance

      Depiction or discussion of sensitive content

      Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

      Depiction or discussion of peer pressure or bullying

      Supervision

      Adult supervision recommended

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2025), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

      Lesson video

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words with their definition.

      Correct Answer:peer pressure,when someone tries to persuade or force someone else to do something

      when someone tries to persuade or force someone else to do something

      Correct Answer:respect,treating others kindly, valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries

      treating others kindly, valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries

      Correct Answer:boundary,an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

      an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

      Q2.
      A sign that a relationship is unhealthy is called a ...

      Correct Answer: red flag

      Q3.
      Which statements are true?

      Correct answer: It is good to be kind and we also need to stick up for ourselves.
      It is our fault if there are problems in our family.
      Surprises and secrets mean the same thing.
      Correct answer: Each family is unique.

      Q4.
      What is consent?

      Correct answer: permission to do something
      hurting someone by ignoring what they want
      providing help and encouragement to others
      an agreement where all people are happy

      Q5.
      Match the start of each sentence with how it should end:

      Correct Answer:Every part of our body,is important.

      is important.

      Correct Answer:Our genitals are,a private part of our body.

      a private part of our body.

      Correct Answer:Typically, boys have,penises.

      penises.

      Correct Answer:Typically, girls have,vulvas.

      vulvas.

      Q6.
      In which scenarios should we tell a trusted adult what has happened?

      Correct answer: someone asks us to keep a secret that makes us feel worried
      Correct answer: if something has happened that has made us feel unsafe
      if someone asks us for a hug and we say yes
      if someone tells us about a surprise birthday present

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words with their definition.

      Correct Answer:trusted adult,someone we know offline who makes us feel safe who can help us

      someone we know offline who makes us feel safe who can help us

      Correct Answer:rules,expectations to follow that can keep us safe

      expectations to follow that can keep us safe

      Correct Answer:uncomfortable,feeling anxious, worried or unable to relax

      feeling anxious, worried or unable to relax

      Q2.
      Some adults might put on us that feels uncomfortable.

      Correct Answer: pressure

      Q3.
      Which statements are true?

      All adults are always kind.
      Correct answer: Not all adults are always kind.
      Correct answer: We should all have trusted adults who care for us and will protect us.
      Children can only speak to trusted adults at home if they are worried.

      Q4.
      How do adults keep us safe?

      Correct answer: They sometimes need to tell us what to do.
      Correct answer: They give us rules.
      They make us feel uncomfortable.
      They put us under pressure.

      Q5.
      Adults should touch us in a way that makes us feel uncomfortable.

      always
      sometimes
      Correct answer: never

      Q6.
      What should we do if we feel unsafe?

      Correct answer: leave the situation
      Correct answer: tell a trusted adult
      Correct answer: say 'no' loudly and clearly
      ignore how we feel
      do what makes us feel uncomfortable

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