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  • Year 10

Healthy relationships

I can describe aspects of healthy long-term relationships.

Lesson 1 of 3
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Healthy relationships

I can describe aspects of healthy long-term relationships.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. Healthy relationships require ongoing effort and commitment.
  2. Effective communication is crucial for understanding and resolving issues.
  3. Respect and boundaries are fundamental to maintaining trust and mutual support.
  4. Conflict resolution strategies help prevent and manage disagreements.
  5. Emotional intelligence enhances relationship quality.

Keywords

  • Respect - being considerate of others and the world around you; treating people fairly and how you would like to be treated

  • Communication - the exchange of words, either verbal or written, to express thoughts, feelings and ideas

  • Boundary - an imaginary line separating what we will and won't allow

  • Conflict resolution - ways to solve disagreements or fights peacefully by talking, listening and finding solutions that work for everyone involved

  • Emotional intelligence - being aware of your own feelings and understanding how others feel, then using this knowledge to handle situations better

Common misconception

Healthy relationships are free of conflict.

Even healthy relationships experience conflict. It's the management and resolution of these conflicts that contribute to the health of the relationship.


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Prior knowledge starter quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
In any relationship, what is the most important factor for building trust between two people?

having similar interests and hobbies
Correct answer: consistent honesty and reliability over time
spending every moment together
never having any disagreements or conflicts

Q2.
Healthy relationships require both people to understand and respect each other's personal ...

Correct Answer: boundaries

Q3.
Match each communication style to its description.

Correct Answer:passive,avoiding conflict, not expressing needs

avoiding conflict, not expressing needs

Correct Answer:aggressive,hostile, demanding, dismissive of others

hostile, demanding, dismissive of others

Correct Answer:assertive,direct and honest while respecting others

direct and honest while respecting others

Correct Answer:passive-aggressive,indirect expressions of negative feelings

indirect expressions of negative feelings

Q4.
When someone you care about is going through a difficult time, what is usually the most helpful response?

tell them about a time when you had it worse
distract them by changing the subject completely
Correct answer: listen actively and ask how you can support them
give them advice on exactly how to fix their problems

Q5.
When two people have different opinions or needs that seem to clash, this situation is called a ...

Correct Answer: conflict, disagreement, argument

Q6.
Which statement best describes how emotions affect our relationships with others?

Correct answer: Understanding and managing emotions improves relationship quality.
Strong emotions should always be hidden to avoid problems.
Emotions are private and should never influence how we treat others.
Emotional people are too unstable to maintain good relationships.

Assessment exit quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words to their correct definitions.

Correct Answer:respect,being considerate of others and the world around you

being considerate of others and the world around you

Correct Answer:communication,the exchange of words to express thoughts, feelings and ideas

the exchange of words to express thoughts, feelings and ideas

Correct Answer:conflict resolution,ways to solve disagreements or fights peacefully

ways to solve disagreements or fights peacefully

Q2.
Which statement is true about conflict in healthy long-term relationships?

Healthy relationships never experience any conflict or disagreements.
Conflict always means the relationship is failing and should end.
People in healthy relationships avoid discussing problems to keep peace.
Correct answer: Healthy relationships do experience conflict but manage it constructively.

Q3.
What does it mean that healthy relationships require "ongoing effort and commitment"?

You must spend every free moment with your partner or friend.
Correct answer: Relationships need consistent attention, care and work from both people.
Only one person needs to make an effort for the relationship to work.
Effort is only needed at the beginning of a relationship.

Q4.
How do respect and boundaries work together to maintain trust and mutual support in relationships?

Correct answer: Respecting someone's boundaries shows you value and respect them.
Boundaries create distance so respect isn't necessary.
Boundaries and respect are opposites that can't work together.
Only romantic relationships need boundaries and respect.

Q5.
Using helps you understand your own emotions and respond thoughtfully during conflicts.

Correct Answer: emotional intelligence

Q6.
Match each conflict resolution strategy to an example of how it works in practice.

Correct Answer:active listening,"So what you're saying is that you felt ignored at lunch?"

"So what you're saying is that you felt ignored at lunch?"

Correct Answer:compromise,"How about we alternate who chooses the breaktime activity?"

"How about we alternate who chooses the breaktime activity?"

Correct Answer:taking a break,"Let's talk about this tomorrow when we've cooled down."

"Let's talk about this tomorrow when we've cooled down."

Correct Answer:finding common ground,"I can see we both want to feel valued in this friendship."

"I can see we both want to feel valued in this friendship."