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  • Year 3

Mutual respect and tolerance

I can explain how to show mutual respect and tolerance for people with different beliefs and faiths.

Lesson 5 of 5
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Mutual respect and tolerance

I can explain how to show mutual respect and tolerance for people with different beliefs and faiths.

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Key learning points

  1. Mutual respect and tolerance is one of the fundamental British values.
  2. Respect means treating people fairly and kindly, even when they are different from us.
  3. Tolerance means accepting differences in faith and belief without being unkind.
  4. People may follow many different religions or none at all. It is important to be respectful regardless.
  5. Mutual respect and tolerance do not mean always agreeing, they mean valuing people as they are.

Keywords

  • Respect - treating others kindly and valuing their feelings, ideas and boundaries; for example, listening carefully and being polite, even if you disagree

  • Tolerance - understanding that not everyone has to think, look or act the same way you do, and being ok with those differences

  • Faith - a person’s religion or set of beliefs

Common misconception

Respect means you have to believe the same things as others.

Respect means listening and valuing others, even if your beliefs are different.


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Use examples of celebrations (Christmas, Eid, Diwali, Lunar New Year) to show how people respect each other’s traditions.
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Prior knowledge starter quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Which British value means the freedom to believe, speak and express yourself?

democracy
rule of law
Correct answer: individual liberty

Q2.
Which of these shows treating someone kindly?

laughing at someone's clothes
Correct answer: listening when they speak
ignoring them completely
copying their homework

Q3.
People celebrate different like Christmas, Eid and Diwali.

Correct Answer: festivals, holidays, traditions, religious holidays, special days

Q4.
Match each celebration to something people might do.

Correct Answer:Eid,share special food and give money to charity

share special food and give money to charity

Correct Answer:Christmas,put up a special tree and give presents

put up a special tree and give presents

Correct Answer:Diwali,light lamps and share special sweets

light lamps and share special sweets

Q5.
If you have the freedom to choose, you should still be to others.

Correct Answer: kind, nice, respectful, caring

Q6.
What should you do if a friend believes something different from you?

tell them they are wrong
stop being their friend
make fun of their ideas
Correct answer: still be kind to them

Assessment exit quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words to their correct definitions.

Correct Answer:respect,treating others kindly and valuing their feelings, ideas & boundaries

treating others kindly and valuing their feelings, ideas & boundaries

Correct Answer:tolerance,knowing that not everyone is the same as you & being ok with this

knowing that not everyone is the same as you & being ok with this

Correct Answer:faith,a person’s religion or set of beliefs

a person’s religion or set of beliefs

Q2.
Which statement about religion in Britain is true?

Everyone follows the same religion.
Only Christians live in Britain.
Correct answer: People may follow different religions or none at all.
Everyone must choose a religion to follow.

Q3.
Match these respectful actions to the situations.

Correct Answer:listening carefully,when someone explains their different beliefs to you

when someone explains their different beliefs to you

Correct Answer:sharing a special meal together,when someone shares their traditions with you

when someone shares their traditions with you

Correct Answer:including everyone,when someone invites you to join in

when someone invites you to join in

Correct Answer:using kind words,when someone talks about other people’s faith and traditions

when someone talks about other people’s faith and traditions

Q4.
Does showing respect mean you have to believe the same things as someone else?

Correct answer: No, we can have different beliefs and still respect each other.
Yes, we must all believe the same things.
Yes, respect means agreeing with everything.
No, but we should avoid people who are different.

Q5.
What does tolerance mean when someone has different beliefs from you?

You must change your beliefs to match theirs.
You should avoid talking to them.
Tell them their beliefs are wrong.
Correct answer: Accept their differences without being unkind.

Q6.
Mutual respect and tolerance do not mean always , they mean valuing people as they are.

Correct Answer: agreeing