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Managing conflict in healthy ways

I can describe how to handle conflict in a positive way.

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Year 3

Managing conflict in healthy ways

I can describe how to handle conflict in a positive way.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. Everyone experiences conflict.
  2. It is ok to have conflict with friends.
  3. We need to make sure we handle conflict healthily.
  4. Strategies to handle conflict include listening, speaking calmly and taking some space.
  5. Conflict can feel frustrating and upsetting.

Keywords

  • Conflict - when people don't agree about something and have different ideas about what should happen

  • Disagree - to have a different opinion from someone else

  • Frustrating - something that makes you feel a little annoyed or upset

  • Calm - feeling peaceful and relaxed, with no big emotions

Common misconception

We should never argue or disagree with anyone because then it means that you are not friends.

Being able to disgaree is really important. You do not have to agree on everything, but being able to have a conversation about different opinions helps us understand each other.


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Prior knowledge starter quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the word to the definition.
Correct Answer:experience,things that happen to us and how they make us feel

things that happen to us and how they make us feel

Correct Answer:emotion,feelings we have inside, like happiness, sadness or anger

feelings we have inside, like happiness, sadness or anger

Correct Answer:sensation,a feeling in our bodies or on our skin

a feeling in our bodies or on our skin

Correct Answer:strong,when something or someone has power or force

when something or someone has power or force

Q2.
We cannot what feelings we have.
Correct Answer: control, decide
Q3.
Which statements are true?
Strong feelings are easy to manage.
Correct answer: Strong feelings can be difficult to manage.
Correct answer: Everyone experiences emotions differently.
Everyone experiences emotions the same way.
Q4.
Laura is experiencing a tight feeling in her tummy and she wants to be alone. How might Laura be feeling?
Correct answer: angry
happy
excited
confident
Q5.
How could we manage our emotions in a healthy way?
Correct answer: take deep breaths
run away and hide
shout at everyone around us
Correct answer: talk to a trusted adult
Correct answer: write our feelings down
Q6.
When might we need support?
Correct answer: when our emotions feel too big to manage
Correct answer: when our strong emotions last a long time
Correct answer: when our strong emotions begin to affect our lives
when our emotions feel easy to manage

Assessment exit quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the word to the definition.
Correct Answer:conflict,when people don't agree about something

when people don't agree about something

Correct Answer:disagree,to have a different opinion from someone else

to have a different opinion from someone else

Correct Answer:frustrating,something that makes you feel a little annoyed or upset

something that makes you feel a little annoyed or upset

Correct Answer:calm,feeling peaceful and relaxed, with no big emotions

feeling peaceful and relaxed, with no big emotions

Q2.
Which statements are true?
Only some people experience conflicts.
Correct answer: Everyone experiences conflicts.
Correct answer: Conflicts can happen between friends, family members or classmates.
Conflicts can only happen with people we don't like.
Q3.
It's to have conflicts with other people.
Correct Answer: ok, fine, normal, usual, common
Q4.
How might we feel during a conflict?
excited
Correct answer: worried
Correct answer: frustated
Correct answer: confused
calm
Q5.
Why is it important to handle conflicts in a healthy way?
so we can win arguments
Correct answer: so that our relationships can stay strong and respectful
so we can boss other people around
Correct answer: so we can find a solution to the problem
Q6.
How can we handle conflicts in a healthy way?
Correct answer: by listening to the other person
by shouting
by blaming the other person
Correct answer: by using kind words to explain how we feel