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Year 4

We are all similar, we are all different

I can describe similarities and differences between myself and other people.

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Year 4

We are all similar, we are all different

I can describe similarities and differences between myself and other people.

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Lesson details

Key learning points

  1. Everyone has many things in common; humans are more similar than different.
  2. However, we are still all unique and being different is not a bad thing.
  3. It is never ok to treat someone unfairly because they are different to us.

Keywords

  • Different - not the same as something else

  • Similar - being almost, but not exactly, the same as something else

  • Unique - being one of a kind or different from others

Common misconception

People who are different are nothing like me.

It can be easy to focus on the differences between us. However, all humans have many things in common. Even people who seem to be opposite to us, can have very similar experiences of the world.


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Refer to characters in books and famous people to point out that many of the people we admire are different to us, but can still be similar and inspirational.
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Equipment

Content guidance

  • Depiction or discussion of discriminatory behaviour

Supervision

Adult supervision recommended

Licence

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Lesson video

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Prior knowledge starter quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words with their definition.
Correct Answer:agree,to have the same opinion as someone else

to have the same opinion as someone else

Correct Answer:disagree,to have a different opinion from someone else

to have a different opinion from someone else

Correct Answer:ideas,someone's thoughts or opinions

someone's thoughts or opinions

Correct Answer:argument,when people disagree and give reasons why they think they are correct

when people disagree and give reasons why they think they are correct

Q2.
Which of these statements are true?
Correct answer: Good friends do not always agree.
Good friends always do what the other one asks.
Good friends ignore each other's boundaries.
Correct answer: Good friends care for and support each other.
Q3.
What can we do if we think someone is being bullied?
ignore it
join in the bullying
Correct answer: tell a trusted adult
Correct answer: support the victim
Q4.
Match the behaviour with whether it could damage or repair a friendship.
Correct Answer:respecting each other's boundaries,repair

repair

Correct Answer:listening to each other,repair

repair

Correct Answer:ignoring each other,damage

damage

Correct Answer:having an argument,damage

damage

Correct Answer:disrespecting each other's ideas,damage

damage

Q5.
Which of these do not define bullying?
Correct answer: being unkind to someone once
Correct answer: accidentally hurting a friend's feelings
frightening or hurting someone again and again
Correct answer: making someone feel welcome in class
Q6.
Good friends with each other when they disagree.
Correct Answer: compromise

Assessment exit quiz

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6 Questions

Q1.
Match the words with their definition.
Correct Answer:different,not the same as something else

not the same as something else

Correct Answer:similar,being almost, but not exactly, the same as something else

being almost, but not exactly, the same as something else

Correct Answer:unique,being one of a kind or different from others

being one of a kind or different from others

Q2.
Which of these statements are true?
Correct answer: All people have many things in common.
People who are different are nothing like me.
Correct answer: Being different is a wonderful thing.
Humans are more different than similar.
Q3.
Humans all have ...
the same skin colour
Correct answer: feelings
Correct answer: memories
the same opinions
Q4.
It is __________ ok to treat someone unfairly because they are different to us.
always
sometimes
Correct answer: never
Q5.
Good friends are about each other’s similarities and differences.
Correct Answer: curious
Q6.
Match the characteristics to whether it is the same or different for all humans.
Correct Answer:different,a person's eye colour

a person's eye colour

Correct Answer:same,having a skeleton

having a skeleton

Correct Answer:different,a person's height

a person's height

Correct Answer:same,having a brain

having a brain