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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can describe what roles and responsibilities people have at home.

      Key learning points

      1. Healthy families have rules to make things fair and kind.
      2. We should listen carefully to what our trusted adults say.
      3. We should contribute to our family life if we can.
      4. Parents and carers should provide the things that children need.
      5. We sometimes need to help our families.

      Keywords

      • Fair - when everyone gets what they need

      • Responsibilities - the actions that we take to show care and respect for others

      • Role - the things we do to help other people

      Common misconception

      Parents and carers should do everything for a child.

      Children will benefit if they contribute, in a proportionate way, to life at home. This will also often take the pressure off parents and carers, who are often busy.

      Teacher tip

      Make a link between school rules and the rules that pupils have in their own homes. Reinforce that rules should be there to make things fairer and safer for everybody.

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Who are the people in your life that you trust to keep you safe and help you when you need it?

      Correct answer: trusted adults
      school friends
      only teachers
      strangers

      Q2.
      Healthy families should treat each other with kindness and ...

      Correct Answer: love

      Q3.
      Match the words to their correct definitions.

      Correct Answer:safe,something that won't hurt us
      Correct Answer:secure,feeling protected and safe from harm
      Correct Answer:worried,feeling scared or nervous about something that might happen

      Q4.
      Which of these is a rule that helps keep children safe at home?

      never wash your hands
      run down the stairs as fast as you can
      Correct answer: don't touch cleaning products without an adult
      leave toys on the stairs

      Q5.
      Why might parents and carers need help from children at home?

      because they are lazy
      Correct answer: because they have a lot to do and could use support
      because children should do everything
      because grown-ups can't do anything

      Q6.
      Healthy families should make each other feel scared or worried.

      Correct Answer: not, never

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Match the words to their correct definitions.

      Correct Answer:fair,when everyone gets what they need
      Correct Answer:responsibilities,the actions that we take to show care and respect for others
      Correct Answer:role,the things we do to help other people

      Q2.
      What are reasons why families have rules at home?

      Correct answer: to make things fair and to keep us safe
      to make life boring and unfair
      to stop us having fun and to make us unhappy
      to make children do all the work and have no time for play

      Q3.
      Why should children help with age-appropriate tasks at home?

      because parents and carers should do nothing
      because children must do everything in the home
      Correct answer: to learn skills and take pressure off busy parents and carers
      because it's a form of punishment for children

      Q4.
      Which statement is true about families supporting each other?

      Only children should help at home.
      Correct answer: Parents and carers provide what children need, and children can contribute too.
      Parents and carers should do everything for children.
      Children should never help their families.

      Q5.
      How might helping our families make us feel?

      bored and unhappy
      Correct answer: proud and responsible
      angry and frustrated
      Correct answer: like an important part of the family

      Q6.
      We should carefully to what our trusted adults say.

      Correct Answer: listen, always listen

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