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      Lesson details

      Learning outcome

      I can explain why friends are important and why trust is important in friendships.

      Key learning points

      1. Good friendships involve trust and communication.
      2. Making friends requires sharing and kindness.
      3. Listening is a key part of being a good friend.
      4. Friendships need kindness, care and time to stay strong.
      5. Friendships enrich our lives with support and joy.

      Keywords

      • Support - providing help and encouragement to others

      • Kindness - being nice, caring and thinking about how others feel

      • Trust - the belief that someone is reliable and honest

      Common misconception

      Friendships don't require effort.

      Friendships require effort, communication and mutual respect to grow and thrive.

      Teacher tip

      Remind pupils of times when they have helped each other or when they have been exceptionally kind to each other and celebrate these examples.

      Licence

      This content is © Oak National Academy Limited (2026), licensed on Open Government Licence version 3.0
      except where otherwise stated. See Oak's terms & conditions
      (Collection 2).

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      Prior knowledge starter quiz

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      Which of these statements about friendships are true?

      Friends always look alike.
      Friends always have the same interests.
      Friends are always the same age.
      Correct answer: Friends can look different and have different interests.

      Q2.
      How can we appreciate and celebrate our friends’ differences?

      Correct answer: make them a card
      Correct answer: tell them
      ignore them

      Q3.
      When we appreciate our friends we make them feel ...

      Correct answer: valued and loved
      happy and sad
      angry and upset

      Q4.
      What is a friend?

      your family or teachers
      Correct answer: someone who cares for you, helps you and makes you feel happy
      a school of children

      Q5.
      Complete the sentence with the missing word: qualities make each friend special.

      Correct Answer: unique, special, different

      Q6.
      Which word means not the same as something else?

      Correct Answer: different

      6 Questions

      Q1.
      What is one quality of a good friend?

      being bossy
      Correct answer: being kind
      taking things

      Q2.
      How can you make a friend?

      by being rude
      by ignoring them
      Correct answer: by sharing and being kind

      Q3.
      Why is trust important in friendships?

      It doesn't matter.
      Correct answer: It makes friendships stronger.
      It makes friendships weaker.

      Q4.
      What do friendships need to stay strong?

      water, food and warmth
      Correct answer: kindness, care and time
      play, laughter and arguing

      Q5.
      Which word means providing help and encouragement to others?

      Correct Answer: support, supports, supporting, supported

      Q6.
      Complete the sentence: means being nice, caring and thinking about how others feel.

      Correct Answer: kindness, being kind, kind

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